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Keeping ourselves and our pets safe

Dogs, cats, budgies, or bunnies – spending time with pets and other friendly furries does wonders for the heart and soul. For many older people, companionship with a beloved pet can be one of the most important parts of their day-to-day life, and can help to prevent isolation and loneliness, especially if they’ve lost a partner or live away from family.

Published: 31 May 2023
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  • 31 May 2023
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Sadly our animals can also be used by perpetrators of elder abuse: they may intentionally harm or threaten to harm animals as a tactic of control and/or emotional and psychological abuse. And while we’re perhaps more familiar with financial or physical abuse and neglect, animal abuse to coerce and control can be part of a pattern of elder abuse that is enormously distressing. Signs to watch for:

  • My pet is scared or flees when my family member/carer is near.

  • They physically hurt my pet.

  • They say they are looking after my pet but when they do my pet seems hungry, thirsty, overheated or cold, dishevelled.

  • They won’t let me take my sick/injured pet to the vet.

  • They threaten to hurt or kill my pet.

  • Pets have mysteriously died when alone with my carer/family member.

If you or your pet are in immediate danger call police on 000.

Or call 1800 ELDERHelp (1800 353 374). It’s a free call that automatically redirects callers seeking information and advice on elder abuse with the phone service in their state or territory. The phone line has been set up in collaboration with state and territory governments.