Preventing Financial Abuse

This factsheet offers ways to empower older people to prevent financial abuse. Tips include:

  • be clear with family members about how and when you intend to distribute inheritances

  • don’t be pressured to hand over an inheritance prematurely

  • be clear about what you intend to do with your money, including assets like the family home

  • don’t give others your PIN or other bank details

  • don’t be pressured to draw down or sell financial assets, including your family home, if you don’t want to

  • be clear if money is a loan or a gift

  • write out legal contracts if lending any money

  • think carefully about being a guarantor for someone, even a family member, as you could lose your home if they default on the loan

  • be clear about plans and expectations if moving into a shared living arrangement with family members. Document what your financial share in the new property is and make sure your name is on the Title.

  • seek independent legal advice

  • think about what might happen to you if your adult child’s living arrangements change, such as if they get divorced

  • discuss your expectations with regards to shared living arrangements. This could include whether you will be expected to cook or baby-sit

  • stay connected and engaged in the community around you. The more isolated an older person is, the more vulnerable they are to abuse.

  • obtain and read carefully information on an enduring power of attorney. Think carefully about who you trust to have your enduring power of attorney

  • consider getting legal advice on an enduring power of attorney

  • keep a copy of your enduring power of attorney documents for yourself and inform other family members and friends about them

  • don’t sign anything you have not completed yourself.