Why was this stranger calling me sweetheart? The benevolent ageism of ‘elderspeak’

In 1986, UK researchers Gillian Cohen and Dorothy Faulkner coined the word “elderspeak” to describe a patronising manner of speaking to older people.

Published: 16 July 2025
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  • 16 July 2025
  • Marcia van Zeller/The Guardian

Dr Marlene Krasovitsky, a consultant to the World Health Organization’s Global Campaign to Combat Ageism, and board member of Australia’s anti-ageism advocate body EveryAGECounts, describes elderspeak as a form of “benevolent ageism”.

“Research tells us that benevolent ageism is the most entrenched form of ageism because we tend to think of older people as frail, sick, dependent, passive,” Dr Krasovitsky tells writer Marcia van Zeller.

“Elderspeak diminishes and devalues. It erodes autonomy and voice and feeds the perception that older people are passive onlookers to life, basically irrelevant.”